Week 22

Well, at 22 weeks, this is how the belly is looking. It is getting bigger by the week, but that is okay with us - it means the baby is growing! We have good news this week - we found out that Nick is not a carrier of Cystic Fibrosis. Since he is not, but I am, that means our children will not have CF, but they may be carriers of it like I am. The specialist told us that our pediatrician will test our children for that so they know and so they know if they marry someone who is also a carrier of it, then they will have 25% chance of having a child with CF. I never thought I would be thinking about my grandchildren while my first child is still in the womb!!! We had an appointment with the specialist last Friday which went well - Baby P is growing as he should and everything is looking normal. Today we had an appointment with our regular OB who said we don't have to see the specialist anymore if we don't want to. All they can do from here on out is monitor the growth of the baby with ultrasounds, which our regular OB can do. One less doctor appointment a month - I'm okay with that! Our OB will also keep checking my blood for those darn antibody levels, just to make sure it isn't increasing as we go. One bad piece of news we got today - we probably won't be able to fly home for the holidays! We knew we weren't going to be able to go home for Christmas, but Thanksgiving is not going to work either. Our OB said technically we would probably be fine to fly (I would be 32 weeks at Thanksgiving), but at 32 weeks I would be at higher risk to have symptoms of pre-term labor. So ... I think we've decided not to push the envelope and not try to fly for Thanksgiving. We are going to possibly try to fly up to Michigan in October when I am only 27 or 28 weeks and then just stay put after that. Oh, how I am going to miss the holidays up there!!! :( This will be a challenging year for me, but it is for a great cause, to have a healthy and safe baby.



All in all, I am feeling great. I have still been able to do 3-4 workouts a week, mostly walking and swimming, but it is gradually getting more difficult to do. I have had to decrease my speed on the treadmill in the past week or so. :) As I was walking around the schools today at work, I noticed myself huffing and puffing and thought, "Geez, how am I going to do this when I am 9 months pregnant?!!" Ahhh, we will find out when we get there... Hopefully this huffing and puffing was due to my stuffy nose I have been battling lately. I came down with a headcold this past week - thankfully, I had no fever and didn't have to worry that it was the swine flu.



Anyway, I think that is all for now. I will leave you all with the 4D image we got of Baby P when we went to the specialist last Friday. Isn't he a cutie?!! ...

Baby Belly

These pictures were taken about 1 week ago, so I am probably even bigger now! But, yes I definitely have popped and look pregnant instead of looking like I have just been eating too much pizza. :) I feel like it gets bigger every day. The baby finally kicked hard enough for Nick to feel it. It happened while we were up in Michigan this past weekend. He was excited and said, "I'll never forget it, I felt it right underneath my ring finger!" I was so glad he finally felt it.

While we were in Michigan, my mom helped me start a baby registry.... wow, I have a lot of research to do! I am planning to breast feed and I had no idea where to start with those supplies and equipment needs! And as for the rest of the items, if my mom wasn't there, I probably wouldn't have anything on the registry! I now know that I need to do some research about what we will need and what gets put onto a baby registry. Hopefully I can consult some friends who have gone through this as well. :)

With the antibody condition I have going on, we have decided that we are not going to treat it with a blood thinner at this time. Nick and I both agreed that with my levels being in the borderline category and considering the negative side effects from a blood thinner, we are going to let it ride for now and hope everything goes well. We saw the OB last Thursday - the heartbeat is good and everything seems to be going well so far. The OB wants us to see the specialist at least one more time to just be sure that the baby is developing as it should. Then, we will sort of treat this pregnancy as a normal, non-complicated pregnancy. However the OB said he does want to keep checking this antibody level in my blood throughout the pregnancy just to be sure it does not increase. At this appointment, we did get some other concerning news - through the random DNA testing they did to try and figure out what was causing my antibody issue, they found out I am a carrier for Cystic Fibrosis. What a surprise - I had no idea this was in my family. After talking to my mom, I found out that one of my Dad's cousins had CF. Anyway, we are not too worried about this. Nick is going to get tested this week to see if he is a carrier. If he is not, then we won't have to worry at all. If he is a carrier, then we have a chance of having a baby with CF. So we have a lot to pray about here, but we are confident and happy with our decisions and are continuing to think positively.

Below are gifts we recieved from Nick's nephews. The day we found out we were going to have a boy, we went to dinner with Nick's family and that is where we were given these: The first one is a picture drawn for us from Holden - it is our first family portrait of me, Nick, and our son. Holden said, "Aunt Lindsey, you are jumping up in the picture because you are so happy." :) Under that is a picture of the three friendship bracelets that Harrison made for us; one for Aunt Lindsey, one for Uncle Nick, and one for the baby boy. We told him we are going to wait to wear the bracelets until the baby is here so we can all wear them together. :) I love it; I definitely got a little teary-eyed over these!

Update on Baby P

Well, we found out yesterday ... it's a BOY!!! I am happy with whatever, as long as it is a healthy baby. Nick feels the same, although he is VERY happy to be getting a son. :) The specialist did a detailed ultrasound, where everything looks great so far. We were able to see his hands, feet, two little ears, kidneys, heart, brain, everything. They say he is about 8 oz. right now. Mommy has gained a lot more than 8 oz.!



During the past week and a half, I believe I have popped. My belly seems to be growing with every new day. :) I will post pictures soon. I am feeling the baby moving now, and am able to definitely tell that it is not gas bubbles anymore. :) I feel him move several times a day, although the movements are still not strong enough for daddy to feel.



As far as the blood results go and the situation with the increased antibodies, it is still the same. My blood was retested and my cardiolipin level did decrease a couple points, but is still in the "borderline" category. The doctors say that I am in a "gray" area and therefore in a difficult situation with knowing what to do. They cannot give us a guideline on what to do, whether to put me on a blood thinner or to do nothing. I am still at a higher risk to have a miscarriage or stillbirth due to the increased levels of cardiolipin possibly causing blood clots around the placenta. And I am not considered a textbook candidate for heparin therapy because my numbers are not in the High risk category and because I've never had a blood clotting event prior to this. Heparin is a serious drug to put myself through and so the doctors are cautioning us on the negative effects that it may have if we decide to do that. And these doctors are not recommending the use of baby aspirin. Ah!, there is so much to explain in this situation, I hope you all aren't totally confused. :) So ... we are still trying to decide what to do. There are lots of things to think about and a lot of praying to do. We hope to decide in the next week which route to take. Although a somewhat scary and frustrating situation, we are continuing to think positively, are trusting that God will help us decide what to do, and are trusting him completely with this pregnancy no matter what happens. Keep us in your prayers if you think about it; we appreciate it!

We haven't started talking about names yet. Now that we know it is a boy, any ideas out there?

We are 15 weeks along, and had an appointment today with our regular OB. All went well, and we heard a nice, healthy heartbeat using the Doppler. Dr. said everything looks good so far. We still need to get Lindsey's blood re-tested for the Cardiolipin levels next week and then will see the specialist in 2 weeks to decide what to do about that condition. So we don't know anything more about that, this appointment today was just to check the baby and talk to the OB. We are continuing to think positively about the situation and are trusting God with everything. Apparently, the doctor's office is thinking positively too - they slapped the delivery bill on us ALREADY!!! What!!!??? That's okay though, we like the optimism! Lindsey's belly bump is getting a little more "round" these days, and isn't as easy to hide. She hasn't felt any fetal movement yet, other than a few slight thumps and bumps that we are writing off as gas sensations at this point. :) Other than being tired, Lindsey is feeling good and has been able to do a lot of swimming and walking at the YMCA. The nauseousness she was having is gone and has seemed to turn into hunger. :) Well, that's all for now; we will keep you all posted in the upcoming weeks when the blood work results are in.

Baby P

Okay, so the news is: We are pregnant and expect the new Palomba to join us in January! We found out we were pregnant when we were about 5-6 weeks along, back in April. We had our first ultrasound at 6 weeks when we heard a healthy heartbeat of 120 beats per minute. Here is the first picture of Baby P at 6 weeks:

After a LONG five weeks between appointments (and a lot of queasiness for Lindsey), we had our second ultrasound July 7th, where we not only heard a strong heartbeat of 163 beats per minute, but also saw our baby with arms and legs. Baby P was moving all around during the ultrasound, making it difficulty for the technician to see the neck for testing downs syndrome. Here is a second picture of our "more human"-looking baby at 11 weeks:

When going back in for another appointment a week later, July 13th, we found out some scary news. Our OB informed us that Lindsey has a condition in which an antibody in her blood, Cardiolipin, is at elevated levels. Her numbers of this antibody are in the "borderline" category. This condition has been shown to cause miscarriages, especially second trimester miscarriages and stillbirth in the third trimester. The antibody causes Lindsey's blood to produce more blood clots, and so small blood clots can gather around the placenta, decreasing the flow of nutrients to the baby. There is treatment for this condition, which includes blood thinners and/or baby aspirin. Lindsey would have to take a blood thinner throughout the pregnancy, which can have risks to the baby towards the end of the pregnancy. So, to help us decide what to do in this situation, our OB referred us to a maternal-fetal specialist. We had an appointment there on July 16th. They did a detailed ultrasound, where the baby looked great. We also consulted with one of the specialists. Our specialist said because Lindsey's antibody levels are not very high, although elevated, and she has never had an "episode" prior to this that would indicate a clotting disorder, he is not extremely worried about our situation. He recommended that before we treat anything that could cause more risk, that we re-test Lindsey's blood in 3 weeks and then meet with him in 5 weeks to go over the results. Then we will be able to see if the levels stayed the same, increased, or decreased. If the levels decrease, we will not have to go through treatment. If the levels stay the same or increase, the specialist will recommend treatment with a blood thinner, not baby aspirin. He stated that baby aspirin crosses the placenta which may affect the baby, and may not even work effectively. The blood thinner, on the other hand, does not cross the placenta, and therefore will have less risk to the baby, as long as Lindsey does not have some sort of bleed during the pregnancy. If there is a bleed and Lindsey is on the blood thinners, then there could be some risk to Lindsey and the baby.

Anyway, that is the situation we are dealing with. For now, there really is nothing we can do, and are technically still at higher risk for miscarriage. We are praying that the baby stays healthy and grows as it should, and also that Lindsey's antibody levels in her blood decrease. We will keep you posted on the situation, and appreciate your thoughts and prayers. We both are thinking positively about this, and know that whatever happens, that God is in control, and we trust him completely. On a more positive note to finish this week's blog, here is the most recent picture of Baby P at 13 weeks:

Lindsey's Belly at 13 weeks: